The movie. I went to see it today with my wife, daughter and god daughter that I live with. I found it to be a very good representation of relatively balanced people trying to make sense of the dating scene and trying to find their perfect mate. The mistakes in communication between men and women, as well as the mistakes about the opposite sex are chronicled in this movie very well.
Women don't get just how direct and thereby cruel in a way men are. They aren't trying to be cruel but men do live in a cruel world and see the world as a very cruel and heartless thing. The only thing for many men good in the world is women who are worth their salt. Men know this. Enough said.