If you want to make God laugh tell him your plans

The reason for this is that your plans whatever they are usually are impossible to happen (at least exactly as you are planning them now). The reason for this is that there are variables not known by you now that will make parts, some or even all of your plans impossible.

Since I am a smart guy I realized this at age 21 when my girlfriend of 2 years told me she wanted to remain celibate and didn't want to have kids. This made me realize that when we assume to much we make an ass out of u and me (get it ass u me).

It also made me realize that the next 20 to 25 years that I had planned just weren't going to happen. This was extremely upsetting for me. My reaction to this was to at first get very angry at life and at God and decide to date girls who were not virgins and I kept this pledge to myself and my own sanity until my live in girlfriend got pregnant and we got married so my son would have my name.

But, I realized at that point that making plans in such a firm way was actually counterproductive. And this was my entrance into "Crazy Wisdom". Because I was already a Natural Intuitive and had been one all my life I realized that people who didn't access this side of themselves often died or committed suicide who were 15 to 25 years of age like myself then. So, not accessing your instincts when you are young often is fatal or causes insanity at some point through the inevitable disappointments of life.

Allowing your intuitive side out allows (in most cases) you to not have untimely deaths or getting insane from your disappointments. By becoming intuitive and compassionate to yourself and all beings you tend to end physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual deaths. You still die to self but because you are on a "Crazy Wisdom" (Wisdom beyond logic path) you survive because you come to realize the true nature of the universe and of God.