Why don't men Talk?

To each other?

Men don't solve problems this way. This is how women solve problems by talking to each other. Women tend to solve problems by consensus.

Men don't usually solve problems this way.

Why?

Because generally speaking we are just not wired this way.

First there is testosterone. This likely is why men don't solve problems this way. Men are sort of like Bears. We retreat into our man cave (usually our bedroom) or sometimes and actually cave or car or truck or go into the woods alone. Then we figure out whatever is bothering us (or we don't) and we go forward with whatever we have.

But, I cannot speak for men much younger than 40 or 50 because something radically changed with the Viet Nam War in all this regarding how women raise men.

So, from my point of view now women tend to raise men as women rather than how I was raised. So, when I'm talking to a young man (under 40 or 50) I'm never quite sure what is going on with this young man. So, what I'm describing here is how men were raised in the 1950s and 1960s but this started to change in the 1970s because women started raising boys as girls since about the late 1960s so most young men (under 40 or 50) are usually pretty confused about their identities because of this.

Is this change good or bad?

I'm not sure really. All I know is that the end result is the fastest dying demographic these days is white men from all this. Look it up on the Internet if you don't believe me.

Is it good for everyone BUT white men?

Maybe. I'm not even sure that this is true either.

Maybe about 500 years from now we will see whether these changes were good or just drove the whole human race extinct when people like Putin and Xi clashed with these ideas.

I see everything since about the 1960s as a social scientific experiment which either will help mankind or kill us quickly like Political Correctness is killing the U.S., Canada and Europe and Australia right now.

So, I have no idea how all this is going to turn out in the short or long run.

So, why don't men talk to other men about their problems?

Sometimes they do but it's a completely different way of solving problems than women use.

Men can be confrontational in a way that would make most women cry to each other.

But, men aren't allowed to cry but sometimes we beat each other up in the process of discovering whatever is wrong in our lives.

So, "Why don't men talk?"

Sometimes they do but it isn't very polite and can get quite violent sometimes between men when we do.

And if they are friends they understand this and put up with the violence if they are good friends sometimes.

Testosterone is a very hard thing to live with, especially until you are around 40 or more.

That's why there are so many wars on earth (and terrorists too).

I see terrorism as a replacement for war when you have nuclear weapons. So, I would say that terrorism and nuclear weapons are here to say. And Both will tend to prevent World War III and instead make it more likely that overpopulation will cause human extinction through terrorism between 2080 and 2090.

That's what we as a human race need to worry about if we don't want to go extinct this century.