If you are Christian this might sound kind of counter productive. But, in the end this is what I have found that actually leads to success.
Note: I have observed often how Christians don't know how to successfully use their anger often. So, they repress their anger and this often just makes things worse. Understanding that your anger is one of the most useful things in your life (properly harnessed in a disciplined way) is where all financial success comes from. So, redirecting anger into useful success instead of harming others is sort of like the saying: "Make Love Not War!" of the 1960s. You redirect your anger towards your success rather than letting it destroy you and others by killing yourself or others.
So:
1. If something is important enough you never ever give up trying.
2. If people make you angry, don't be ashamed of your anger because success comes from the successful use of repurposed Anger.
What do I mean by this?
If you get hysterical and just start offing people then you have failed and if you don't off yourself then either way your life is over.
But, if when you are wronged you learn how to not be violent and instead use your anger to create justice in your life so you can survive better instead, then often you can be successful by redirecting your anger towards success.
But, if instead you see anger as only a "Killing thing" then you have failed completely and will never ever succeed at anything.
Anger is for a purpose and that purpose IS NOT to just go berserk and kill people. That anger is the most useful thing you have to create success in your life. (AS LONG AS YOU REDI|RECT that anger towards your financial and relationship success and not towards harming or killing someone you feel has wronged you.
Once you embark on a path of violence it is never ending until you are dead too.
Once you understand how to redirect your anger into success in your life then you have just discovered how most people succeed in life, by redirecting anger in such a way that you never give up until you succeed. If you cannot succeed one way you succeed another.
It is about NEVER EVER GIVING UP but figuring out how you can succeed in life no matter what anyone tells you or no matter how much others put you down.
But, don't tell people how you are going to succeed or they will stop you. It has to be your secret of success. Bill Gates and Steve Jobs were once young men that people told them they were crazy. If you have an Iphone, Steven Jobs and the people that worked for him invented that because he just wouldn't ever give up trying until he succeeded.
I'm not saying you are going to be successful like they were but what I am saying is that if you never give up you will succeed if what you are doing is practical enough for you to be successful.
NOTE: The point is that patience and redirecting anger over the years into ways to succeed often winds up in your financial success in the short or long run.
People learn much much more from their failures than they do from their successes. Understanding this is everything. Fear of Failure is stupid because these things teach you how to succeed. IF you are afraid of failure and never try then you can never succeed either.
Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained.
In other words unless you try you can never succeed at anything. So fear of failure is stupid and counterproductive always.
Failure should be seen sort of like going to college because failures teach you how to succeed.
"There are no problems ONLY opportunities!"
And likewise "There are no failures only opportunities to Succeed!"
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