You can be a writer without doing research I suppose but to be a successful blogger you usually need to be doing some research

Whether it is researching news or special events or doing research at places like Wikipedia or others or scientific articles if you are a blogger usually this requires some research into different subjects to be a successful blogger.

However, I suppose there are always exceptions to the rule.

I have never written for money I just have always loved to write because it was always a form of self therapy since my cousin died in a car accident who was 16 when I was 8 years old. Since I'm an only child I needed someone my age to talk to and I found that writing helps a lot with this.

Because we are all different people at different stages of our lives so when I write I find that I meet other versions of myself that I was in different times in my life and it's sort of like "Oh. Hello! Old Friend"

This is what is is like for me. I have always been as kind as I could to others and still survive in my life and I have always been as kind as I can to myself in my life and stills survive too. So, when I write and then read what I have written it is like meeting an old friend in me from another time.

If you are kind to yourself and others you are literally your own best friend and maybe other people's best friend too (as long as they can be kind enough to themselves to see this and to see who you are too).

I find I'm interested in many different things. In this sense I never really ever get bored. I might get sort of lonely if I'm not around any people at all for more than a few days to a week. But, other than that I don't get bored easily. So, I have always chosen in my life never to live alone whether it was my parents or a friend I lived with or a wife and then children I have always chosen to never live alone. I learned I hated living alone when I got an apartment for a summer so my girlfriend could have my bedroom in my parent's house then. She came from Michigan and I gave her my bedroom and rented an apartment so her parents and my parents would be okay with all this in Los Angeles area in Glendale. Of course I was very religious then and we had a celibate relationship because we planned to marry eventually. However, that didn't work out so I had to move on and that was difficult at the time.

Truth is much stranger than fiction in life and I never could have predicted my life when I was a child or even imagined living a life like I have as an adult..

I'm really grateful I stayed alive to 30 and often wonder how ANY of us live to 30 to begin with, especially of the male species which is very different than the female species in many different ways to numerous to mention here.

I would say that men are much more simple than women which is one reason women get mad at men a lot for not being so complex like women tend to be.

We are trained to survive and to protect our families and friends. This is a simple duty and only the men who really can do this have survived to breed for thousands of years and to pass down their genetics to the next generation. If you don't breed and pass your genes on it ends with you when you die. So, if you have good genetics it's good to pass them on if you have the time and money to raise your children properly.

In other words unless you really want to become a parent maybe you shouldn't.

IF it's something you love to do (being a parent) then maybe it will work for you and your kids and your grand kids.