It's really important to be good friends with your mate and have each other's back

Like for example, as I was growing up guys were looking for these really beautiful and sexy girlfriends.

However, that alone just doesn't last.

It's only useful for your girlfriend (or boyfriend) to be sexy and beautiful if they are also sane and your best friend and have your back in any emergency.

Otherwise, a beautiful and sexy girlfriend is a complete waste of time (at least long term).

So, what you need in life is a best friend who you are sexually compatible with who is your equal if possible in that they are as experienced in dealing with real problems in life as you are.

So, if you are young and you are ONLY looking for Beautiful and Sexy and nothing else you will soon be very disappointed and hurt in your life.

In the end you need a Good and sane best Friend who has your back in every situation.

Otherwise, (at least long term) your life becomes stupid and dangerous to your survival beyond belief.

And I really mean it! 

Luckily, by the time I was 30 years old I had learned this lesson the Hard Way.