Dealing with the spirits of dead people

The closer you are to the person who just died the harder it is to be sane about what I'm about to say.

So, on one level it is almost better not to read what I'm going to say if you are so bereaved that you are crying and all screwed up right now.

The point is that no matter how strong you think you are you might not be ready for dealing with the dead, especially if you knew them personally when they were alive. This is just a general rule I find.

Why?

Because your life is usually too caught up in them to help them on a practical level.

It's sort of like dealing with someone drowning the first 2 or 3 months after someone has died.

They might feel they are drowning being dead without their body there to protect them from harm.

So, if you offer them help they might drown you too (in other words drive you insane with them and cause your death somehow so they aren't alone going through this.

So, if you want to stay alive: "And most people do" you have to be very very disciplined and have specific rules in how you interact with Ghosts.

The first question for you has to be: "Can I help this person get to a heaven on the other side?"

This is a question you can naturally answer. If you cannot then you definitely cannot help them.

Then the next question is: "Is it safe for you to help them get to a heaven realm?"

This is much more important to whether you stay alive and sane than you might think.

The third question is: "How good are you at praying?"

In other words: "Does God regularly answer your prayers?"

It's sort of like repairing a car, you have to be very practical or people are going to die when they use that car including you.

So, if you are not ultimately practical don't even attempt helping those you know or want to help on the other side.

By God's Grace