Thursday, April 14, 2016

Meet China's teen brides



Wen touches his wife Jie's stomach to feel ther baby inside. He is 18 and she is 13 years old. They live together in Tangzibian village, Mengla county.

 Most people in the U.S. don't understand China. It is very very different than the U.S. and a much larger country than the U.S. so there are diverse cultures like Han, and Tibetan and Mandarin and many many others there. There are about 300 million people with a life style like we have in the U.S. but also 300 million people with TB (Tuberculosis) with some strains incurable. So, you have this incredible diversity much much greater than the U.S. or Europe. Russia and Siberia and Mongolia are also like this with Great Great diversity. China has always been ungovernable (by European and U.S. standards) because there are just too many ethnic groups to make this practical thousands of years ago or now. So, much more brutal methods are used on people than we would find here in the U.S. or Europe because of this to force all these people to tow the line. A government like we have in the U.S. or a government like we see in Europe could NOT work there without major modifications. The model they might be able to follow would be more similar to the government in India at some point in time if that ever happens because both countries have over 1 billion people each. China is 1.4 billion people by itself. It is likely true that Europe combined with the U.S. populations would not equal either India or China individually. This is a lot to comprehend for both Europeans and Americans in regard to all this.

However, the government of India primarily works because English is the least offensive language there because of thousands of years of conflicts and history there between different ethnic groups with different languages. Since China was not colonized by a European nation (at least in the way India was) this is not possible now at least but might be later in this Century for China to become a more westernized government. For now, it is using Western Capitalism quite effectively even though it is not a democratic country at least yet. Whether Democracy would be useful or not in China you might look at Russia and all it's problems getting used to democracy since Yeltsin. It is very debatable whether you can still Call Russia a democracy or not but you definitely likely could call it a Christian nation once again. So, in being a Christian nation like Europe and England and the U.S. , Russia has more in common with Europe and England and the U.S. than many other parts of the world. China does not endorse any religion at all as a government.

742,452,000 within Europe including England, and U.S. 321 million approximately which makes a little over 1 billion people in the U.S. and Europe.

The last two lines are from the following websites regarding population:

http://www.census.gov/popclock/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_Europe

 

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Meet China's teen brides






Married young: Meet China's teen brides








Story highlights

  • In some remote and rural parts of China, early marriage is not uncommon
  • Photographer Xiao Muyi profiled some young couples in 2014
  • The youngest was 13-years-old
Hong Kong (CNN)Thirteen and just married, Jie looks at her wedding picture framed in white. Next to it, incongruously, are stickers from the Pixar movie "Cars."
Jie married her 16-year-old husband three days after they met during the Lunar New Year in 2014. Not long after, she was pregnant.
It sounds like a scene from China's feudal past, when early marriage was customary, especially for girls, but teenage brides and grooms aren't uncommon in some poor and rural parts of the country's hinterland.
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The reasons are complex -- as economic pressures, shifting social attitudes and changing population dynamics revive a practice that China's Communist leaders had hoped to stamp out.
Photographer Muyi Xiao met Jie and her husband Wen in the southwestern province of Yunnan in 2014.
Jie was the youngest of a number of young Chinese newlyweds she profiled in a tender and fascinating series of images that helped earn 24-year-old Xiao a prestigious photography fellowship with the Magnum Foundation.
"Every girl I saw in these villages got married before they were 18 and some of them were extremely young," says Xiao.
"It's like something they think is normal to do -- it comes from the teachers, from the parents, from the kids."
Jie didn't want to fall pregnant so soon after getting married but didn't know about birth control.
Xiao, who traveled in the region for 18 days, said the marriages didn't appear to be the result of parental pressure, nor a kneejerk response to an unexpected pregnancy.
"I didn't see any forced marriage. The kids are happy, they say they fell in love."
She said the teenagers she profiled weren't comfortable giving their full names.

No penalty?

In China, the legal age for marriage is 22 for men and 20 for women but there's no specific penalty for breaching the law, according to Jiang Quanbao, a professor from Xi'an Jiaotong University.
He says in rural areas many recognize a marriage as long as a couple holds a ceremony and banquet; official registration would take place once the couple were of age.
As such, he says it's difficult to tell how widespread early marriage is. Official figures suggest that the average marriage age is rising -- 26 for men and 24 for women.
But tales of young love have been ringing alarm bells.
In February, pictures of a wedding held for two 16-year-old went viral on social networks and received widespread coverage in state media as debate raged over whether they could really be in love.
The couple told a local newspaper that they had the full support of their families, who paid for the banquet.

'Bare branches'

Many rural parents are keen for their children to tie the knot before they go off to work in factory towns -- a common fate for many -- and this is especially true for sons who may face a struggle to find a partner, says Jiang, the professor.
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The one-child policy and a traditional preference for sons has caused a massive gender imbalance in the Chinese countryside -- latest figures suggest that there are 33.6 million more men than women in China.
These men are often described as "bare branches."
"In some poor areas, getting married early is like a guarantee so they can avoid being bachelors forever," said Jiang.
Xiao blames a lack of sex education and that many children in villages grow up without the supervision of one or both their parents -- part of China's "left behind" generation whose parents go off to work in factory towns and richer cities.
"They watch a lot of romantic dramas but they don't have much sex education. No one told them that having sex isn't the right thing to do."
But Xiao's warm-hearted images don't pass judgment. They show couples that, for the moment at least, look very much in love.

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