How to stay emotionally strong for your friends and family during difficult times

Though Strong people are necessary to take care of all the more serious problems that life often brings in the course of time like Deaths, near deaths, divorce and various kinds of illnesses, this also can take a toll on the stronger people capable of actually dealing with all this.

Because I'm almost 70 now I'm dealing with a lot of deaths or near deaths in friends and relatives near my age from about age 50 on up.

In my own life I have had various kinds of "Lazarus" experiences of sort of rising from the dead multiple times which I attribute to my strong faith and experiences with God all my life since I almost died of whooping cough at age 2 when the angels came to me and healed me.

After an experience like that at age 2 I realized literally anything was possible in the sight of God, so this is how I view all this is that you really don't have to die until God "Calls you".

So, this has made me "By God's Grace" an amazingly emotionally strong person for people in my life.

So now, I notice that as my wife tends to field all the emotional distress by actually talking more to everyone "going through it" because she is very very intelligent and also an emotionally strong person that I have to somehow stay strong for her and to be her "ROCK" through various deaths and near deaths around us in the last few months.

But, also there are always the good things that keep us going too, of the successful births and miracle healings of various people in our lives as well, sometimes including ourselves.

So, being strong is more about having the faith to endure the deaths and transitions about you without completely losing it yourselves.

I do this by experiencing people after they pass often as being as real as when they are alive in bodies hear on earth.

People who don't develop this ability are often driven mad by the realities of life.

Because death and dying is a part of every life.

So if you are in denial of death of anyone then you might lose it when someone you love is gone.

So, understanding that death is a part of life helps people endure almost anything.

By God's Grace