Saturday, August 3, 2019

The problem with Judging others

Is that when you judge others you tend to bring judgement and bad things to yourself as well. This appears to just be part of the natural order of things that some call "karma" and others just say "As you sow so shall you reap" and others say "What goes around comes around".

By the way I see judgement as completely different than discernment.

Discernment is sensing who is dangerous for you and your children to be around and getting away your children and yourself from that person or persons any way you can.

Judgement (at least from my point of view) is finding a way to bring some sort of harm to the person you are judging which will tend to also bring harm upon the person doing the judging as well I have found.

Then we have compassion for oneself and others which tends to cause good for oneself and good for others (as long as it is not idiot compassion). Idiot compassion is not thinking things through right and often trying to help dangerous people that you simply cannot survive helping or inadvertently causing harm to others from not thinking things through properly.

Then we have right mindful compassion which is using logic and reason and finding ways to engineer ways to help other people without causing harm to anyone either directly or indirectly including yourself.

This right mindful compassion is best practiced I have found by people over 30 years of age because by then often people have enough life experience to practice right mindful compassion with more finesse than when they are younger.

By God's Grace

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