My son who has almost died at least 20 or more times since June said this to me today on a text and I realized just how important this actually is.
The saying that might be most useful in this is:
"PRAY FOR THE DEAD AND THE DEAD WILL PRAY FOR YOU!"
which is celebrated in Hispanic Cultures like in Mexico with "The Day of the Dead" which is Halloween.
But, honoring all those who have come before you in any way that you can is helpful too.
However, first you need to honor yourself by staying alive. This is the most important in all of this.
I tried to honor my parents wishes for me and finally realized in my 20s that this was neither realistic or even really possible.
Likely it's how I got some of my unrealistic expectations. However, I likely also had unrealistic expectations for my son and maybe other children too.
Because we are all really lucky if our children survive at all.
This is really important to consider when you get realistic about just how many children die or have died in the past like when I was growing up.
Though it's said in the U.S. that IF you live to be 30 you likely will see 90. This is True!
However, it's also true that living to 78 (my age) only happened to 30% to 40% of people in the 1950s and 1960s.
However, when people meet me they usually think I'm around 55 years old because of my more youthful attitude than many older people.
As they say: Age is not a number but instead a state of Mind.
If you think you are old you are. If you don't think you are old you are not.
It's pretty much this simple really.
But, it's also important to be realistic about what you can and cannot survive too.
Otherwise you are dead like a lot of people are between the ages of 40 and 50 because they still believe that physically they are still 25 and this kills them in all ways.
So, being more realistic about everything tends to keep you alive the longest.
Also, the stresses of raising children tends to keep you alive longer especially if they remain speaking to you and caring about you the rest of your lives too.
By God's Grace



