Rain Comes
Less Fires
People Happier
Rain Comes
People indoors
no cars on road
Fall is here
I found that learning to say things in as few words as possible often helps people survive during Crises in their lives.
I found that saying things in few words helped me survive my last divorce in 1994 better.
I was 46 years old and I had been married all but two years of my life since I was 26 years old so it didn't make any sense to me to be single again because I was used to being a good father most.
I'm not sure any man is really built for marriage but it seems to help children grow up better than the alternative. Besides if you like your kids they become in some ways like your own arms and legs and when they go off to college it's like your arms or legs are going away to college leaving you unsure of the future in many ways.
I talked to a man from France who was having trouble now that his sons were grown up who was visiting the U.S. now on a vacation. His sons in their 20s now seemed happy to be here with him but he seemed troubled by them being grown up and on their own now.
The world is a difficult place and when your family grows up and goes to college or to a new life somewhere else this is a difficult time for everyone usually. It's a transition that not everyone makes very well at all.
I don't think any of these transitions are very easy but it's nice to know your kids are okay in whatever lives they choose all over the world.
by God's Grace
