Friday, October 3, 2025

Putting an Aged mother or father or other relative into a nursing home can result in Transfer Trauma can make things 100 times worse for everyone involved

So, often if people are over 80 years old putting them into a rest home that late will basically kill them. Whereas if they were allowed to stay where they were in their homes or with family they might live to 100 or more. So, in some ways over 80 years old putting someone into a rest home often means a type of insanity and death for that person.

Unfortunately, this is often true. 

However, after my mother nearly burned down her apartment like I mentioned in a previous article we had no choice at this point but to put her in a Rest home for people with Senile Dementia. However, she did quite well there (relatively speaking) and slowly reverted back to being 4 years old and in her wheelchair pretended(real for her) to be a 4 or 5 year old once again.

She also was clairvoyant and saw the angels and people's auras and so helped many people because she even in her state was a very kind and helpful person. So, people would come up to me with tears in their eyes and thank me for the incredible help and insight my mother had given them spiritually regarding angels and God.

This is what happened with my mother. She was in this facility from 2001 until she passed away in 2008 and everyone loved my mother because she was still one of the most wonderful people I have ever met in my entire life.

But, this once again (allowing my son and wife to put her in a senile Dementia facility) (Because I could NOT do this to my own mother) was the very worst experience of my entire life. Worse than when my father died in 1985. 

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