I had no idea what this was when I brought my 80 year old mother to Europe to Scotland, England, Germany, Austria, Switzerland and Italy. I didn't know what it was at the time. Basically, it's taking an older person out of their patterns and elements who are not longer capable of mental adaptions to new situations and places and people. After this trip to Europe at 80 my mother fairly quickly slipped into full blown Senile Dementia which was pretty scary for me to deal with. This had to be the worst experience of my life trying to deal with this when we returned to San Francisco and the West Coast. I was blown away with the changes in my mother and she set fire to her kitchen in her apartment by turning on an electric stove burner and setting a plastic tupperware bowl on it and it melted down the stove on fire. Then she sat and prayed it wouldn't set the whole apartment on fire. My son was out shopping for food for her so no one was there and when he returned he realized she could never be left alone again for her own safety and for everyone near her. Instead of dealing with what she had done she simply sat staring at this plastic goop on fire running down the stove and prayed instead of doing something about it. We finally after this had to put her into a senile dementia facility which completely broke my heart because I had promised I would never let this happen to my mother to my father. Under other circumstances I might have felt required by family honor to shoot my mother and then myself because of old school traditions in my family.
However, luckily for me and for my wife and children I had to take a different attitude which is "Life is for the living" and to realize in some ways my mother was dying of a fatal disease which Senile Dementia ALWAYS IS. So, though I was heartbroken and though this was the worst experience of my life My wife and I and my children survived and now we are the Grandparents of 4 Grandchildren.
by God's Grace
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- Older adults: transitioning from their homes to nursing homes or other care facilities.
- Psychological and emotional changes: Sadness, depression, anxiety, anger, withdrawal, and confusion.
- Informing the resident early: and keeping them updated throughout the process.
- Involving familiar people: and maintaining a positive attitude.
- Thoroughly assessing: the individual's needs and preferences.
- Providing opportunities: to ask questions and maintain some level of control.
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