If you are crushed by the death of someone you love or the end of a relationship or a personal physical or psychological injury then often you are stuck there until you psychologically deal with it.
For example, if you are so upset about something that you stand in the middle of a busy street you might just get run over by a truck.
I have seen this kind of thing in person more than once of someone walking down the center divider of a busy 4 lane highway or preparing to run onto a freeway to be potentially killed.
It is always first a psychological evolution that you have to allow to happen to you which is sort of like psychologically dying so you can move forward.
For example, I almost died on January 4th 2026 in the Emergency room of the hospital nearby us. Then I was there in a private room waiting to see if I was going to live. For me, having any bowel movement at all because of something like Diverticulitis caused by a naval Hernia was a goal that meant I wasn't going to have to have emergency surgery to correct this problem. However, even that if I had had it meant I was going to have to have a robotic Hernia surgery later if I even survived that emergency surgery.
They put me on Chicken broth (the only real food in the next 5 days) along with jello and fruit juices and I think I had one cup of mint tea also in the hospital.
However, after hearing people tied to their beds in other rooms screaming all night (likely dementia patients there to die) I needed to get out of there so I simply walked out on Tuesday like I had been brought by my wife at 6 am on Sunday Morning because I didn't want to die there too. Luckily I had my cell phone so i could call a friend to pick me up in his truck.
So, I'm still alive and now not listening to senile dementia people screaming all night long there at the hospital anymore who are tied to their beds so they don't run away and cause all sorts of problems for themselves and others.
My son had called me and said to me that I had to take the reins into my own hands if I wanted to live which was true because in addition to all the screaming nurses wake you up every hour or two to check your vitals and anything else you can imagine so I couldn't think straight to make good decisions and needed to go home so I could think straight once again. So, I did.
So, my son telling me to take charge of my life got me to leave the hospital so I could stay alive and get to here about 1 month later eventually instead of dying there being another victim in a hospital bed in the hospital.So, getting out of a hospital as soon as you can is one way to survive ever having gone into this hospital.
THIS IS A WORD OF WARNING TO ALL OF YOU OUT THERE. IF YOU ARE OF A VICTIM MENTALITY THEN YOU WILL DIE IN A HOSPITAL WHETHER YOU WANT TO OR NOT!
If I were to choose where I died it would be either sitting at the beach watching the waves come in or sitting on a balcony of a hotel I like in Mt. Shasta and watching the mountain while I maybe drank some brandy and froze to death on this balcony.
But, that is a fantasy and reality (when you have a family you have to think about) is going to be much different than that. (especially when you are a Patriarch of a large family like I am now.)
The fantasy death is for single guys who no one cares about but themselves. This is the reality we all live with.
(However, it is also true that single guys usually die at least 10 years before Married guys because of this too).
So, how can you overcome the obstacles so you can survive your life at any given point you are at right now?
One of my methods is to write down what I am feeling and thinking about myself and everything in my life.
How does this help?
When you are feeling things they are scary like things that go bump in the night much like the crocodiles under your bed when you are a child dreaming you are being eaten alive by Lions and Crocodiles and Hippos.
If you start thinking about how to deal in reality with the lions, tigers and hippos of your subconscious mind you have a chance then to not freak out and act so incoherently in your life.
So, if you begin to understand the problem you are having better you are more likely to solve these problems.
For example, until I was 25 I used to not deal with my problems much and this was literally killing me.
This is how molehills become mountains in your life and if you take this too far you are then dead and hopefully you haven't taken anyone with you into death.
So, if you start young at solving your problems one by one when they first come up you will survive to be 30.
And once you survive to be 30 often you will see 90 (this is generally true at least here in the U.S.)
So, rushing to solve your problems in a constructive way will allow you to live to be 30 which will then allow you likely to live to be 90 or more.
This is just the reality of life we all face every day.
By God's Grace you will find the answers you need to go on living!
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