I myself believed I had to marry this specific Girl and stay in my specific Church for me to live my life.However, neither of those was to be.
though it took me several years to get beyond this what I realized from this was that I didn't deal with disappointment very well just like many people I have met.
But, I came up with a solution to this common problem by realizing that I needed to live my life spontaneously as an opportunist.
By Doing this my life has worked much better ever since.
Another thing is that often the solution to your problems is beyond your present imagination. So, one has to be ready for opportunities to come from literally any direction, many of which you might not believe right now.
Things in life are not set in stone usually ever. In some ways this is a good thing but some might say this is bad too. It depends upon your point of view.
Luckily, like my forebears I have enough of the pioneer experimental spirit that my ancestors have had since they came here from Switzerland in around 1725 to Philadelphia.
So, because of this I am very adaptable. But, I had to discover all this the hard way along the way.
You don't know what you can do until you have to.
That's the best way to say this.
"There are no Problems ONLY Opportunities"
When you can learn to think like this always there is always a way forward for you and your family and friends.
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