Here's the problem with all relationships: They either immediately work or they don't work

You CANNOT force ANY relationship to work or this can get very dangerous like the Gabby and Brian relationship was.

I have been in many many relationships and the one thing they all have in common is you have to see whether it works or not. It really doesn't matter how much you love a person or not in the end. The point is: "Can you survive each other?" This is the most important question of whether you want to stay alive or not. 

So, every relationship I was in I was looking for whether I could survive this relationship and whether the person I was with could survive this relationship. The younger I was the less good I was at making good choices though. Because all this takes a lot of pain and experience to learn usually.

If you expect your first big love to work, you almost always will be extremely disappointed and possibly even suicidal. This is just the nature of love (good, bad and indifferent). 

Things almost never happen the way you expect them too.

But, if a relationship works it's sort of like the sign you see in car garages a lot where they fix cars which is: "IF it ain't broke don't fix it."

In other words when a relationship works you don't always know why but if it works for you and your significant other you should just count your blessings.

However, if you try to force a relationship to work often someone dies or goes crazy one of the two.

So, remember this: "A Relationship is either going to work or it isn't from the beginning." 

And if this relationship isn't working, end it as soon as possible by either walking away and ending contact or however you can survive the end of this relationship. Telling someone you are breaking up with them sometimes is fatal too. So, walking away and not answering their phone calls sometimes is best I have found in the past when I was young.

If you want to survive your life and not die learn to walk away from a relationship that isn't working for you OR for the other person.

Try to save your own life but also try to save your significant other's life too.

It's only kind. 

So, if it isn't working walk away as soon as possible before someone dies.

IF a relationship works (1 in 100 or 1 in 1000) in reality then count your blessings and give thanks to God.

Otherwise, just walk away so you both can live good lives and find someone else.