What is important in Life?

Many people might tell you having a good career or a good job in life is what is important. I disagree.

I think what is most important of anything is to have a reason to want to stay alive and a good career or a good job might not do that. I have met so many people even those who have gone to college only to get out and really hate their lives and careers that I have come to the conclusion that with a job or without one the really most important thing in a person's life is a reason to stay alive.

You have to love someone even if it is yourself that you love. Otherwise you won't stay alive. Either you need to love yourself or you need to let someone love you so you feel useful in that way of letting someone love you. And that someone can be yourself, your parents, your friends, your lover(s), your spouse or sequential spouses. But, you have to either love someone or many someones or to let someone or many someones love and care about you or no career in the world is going to keep you alive.