Sunday, July 26, 2020

What denial in Grief can look like

This is a cautionary tale that happened to someone I know. They had been living in Europe for some time and they came home because their father was sick (this actually happened during the late 1980s.
So, they came home in time to see their father die. And then they came and visited me because we had been friends at that point about 20 years.

This person was a lady I knew and she said to me: "OH! I went into heaven with my father and we visited the heaven realms together and he is going to be all right now!"

And I said to her: "I don't see any tears are you okay?"

And she said, "I'm just fine!"

And a couple of months later she had shaved her head and was walking around wearing towels because she was unable to grieve properly for her father because the loss was just too great.

She eventually outgrew this stage and went into another stage but the point is that if you refuse to grieve properly it can get pretty bad and you don't want to get like this with coronavirus happening because getting this "Off" even temporarily could cost you your lives during these times of coronavirus worldwide.

The point is that one needs enough resiliency and adaptive abilities to even begin to survive worldwide during a time of coronavirus. As it is, all the people left behind from coronavirus deaths or maimings are going to create a host of walking wounded adults and children struggling to survive all this worldwide.

To the point where for every one person dying of coronavirus there likely are 10  or more potential deaths from the unexpected death of each person dying of coronavirus in the first place within the next 10 years or so and this is worldwide.

The dead will be gone but every one of us will have to cope with the walking wounded left behind all these deaths. And it likely will take those who survive about 20 years to get their lives working properly (the ones who survive these times that are relatives and friends of those who die of coronavirus worldwide.)

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