I think often they are equally difficult to deal with so for me at least I sort of put them in the same category as (Trying to survive a serious health issue).
Because trying to find a relationship that actually works for you (beyond Sex) is very difficult indeed. So, often people get together because of a sexual relationship and later kill each other as they realize they are addicted to sex with someone they actually hate in a long term relationship.
For example, I was married twice for a total of 20 years until at 46 I finally met someone I could be happy with the rest of my life. I had thought my 2nd marriage might work and did for about 14 years but when my father passed away 5 years into this relationship I knew because of a Deja Vu that I would be married a third time and I was really upset about this because of the kids mostly.
So, it took me until I was 46 to meet and marry someone I could actually be happy married to the rest of my life. Before this I didn't feel safe in my first two marriages because I thought it was (Normal) not to feel safe in a relationship ever.
However, I was wrong about this "Thank God!"
And at age 46 within the first 2 minutes of talking to my present wife I realized I could be happy the rest of my life living with her because she was the nicest kindest person I have ever met.
My mother was like this too and never had something bad to say about anyone.
So, if a man can find a woman kind enough and intelligent enough to live with the rest of their lives then that man might be happy (if he is grown up enough to know what he actually needs to survive into old age.
By God's Grace
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