Is it good to grow up beautiful as a woman or Handsome like a man?

Most people would want to say yes.

However, the reality of this is very very complicated. Why?

The best way I can say this is unwanted Attention.

You might want attention from that one person you want to notice you in life but all the others are sort of a bother to deal with along the way.

So, how you are able to navigate all this is often how well you are going to do in life because if you treat people badly that like or love you they will seek revenge in some way upon you. 

This is just human nature.

So, this is the reality of being handsome like a man or beautiful like a woman.

And if you have had this experience it is always just as bad as it can be good under the right circumstances.

So, navigating all this is a lot (let's put it that way). 

So, I have found the best way forward is to be as kind as you can to everyone you meet.

However, most of the time a person doesn't learn this fully until they are about 30. (Especially men).

So, this can be problematic too.

Because women are always about 3 years more mature than men are for their age (and this often starts by age 9).