Wednesday, November 22, 2017

The Erosion of Trust between men and women

In this era of drastically changing boundaries (which no man at this point really knows what that is now) trust is the main victim in all relationships right now. If other men are experiencing what I am lately it is the stepping back from all women as a way to be safer in my life. And I think this is happening to all men now.

What was acceptable (sort of a week or two ago is not longer acceptable) and no one knows what anyone else wants or doesn't want now.

The wall between men and women which I thought had been coming down a lot since the 1950s and 1960s appears to be rising faster and faster and seems now hundreds of feet high to me.

The main lesson for me likely is women basically saying: "We are completely different than you men and what you have been doing isn't working for us anymore!"

This all men can understand.

However, since most men consider women sort of crazy and different than men anyway, this is very frightening to males all over the world. Because it creates greater and greater distances between men and women as women burn more and more bridges to men.

And in direct response men will tend to at the very least barricade their bridges to women through all this as well as a way to protect themselves from "Crazy women".

Because just as all men are not completely rational neither are all women either.

So, all this is now an intractable minefield for everyone.

This is becoming the new battlefield between men and women.

When I grew up the "War between Men and Women was a real thing"

It is becoming a real thing now once again the way all this is going and unfortunately many many lives of both men and women will be destroyed in this new battlefield. You can see the men being destroyed every day now but soon it will be the women's turn too as the backlash against women from men and against men from women grows and grows now. It is likely that many will be destroyed by this. It is likely that many will die (both men and women now).

This part is very unfortunate because of all the deaths and destruction on both sides now.

And the problem is: There is no end to it in sight.

Will Women be treated better as men are treated worse?

Likely.

But, this is the first skirmish in the latest battle between men and women.

In these wars everyone loses.

Hopefully some day women will be treated the way they want to be.

But, for now it's complete chaos.

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