This should be a time good for men and women but it is actually a very bad time for men and women.
Why?
Because all this is very complex. If you are conservative Christian like Roy Moore, your past can never be spoken of even though it is understood by many if not most that you are a pervert. It is understood by all logical people that both Roy Moore and President Trump are perverts who have no respect whatsoever for women.
But, maybe a better way to put this would be to say: If they are not married to this woman then all women they find desirable are things but not people. So, from this point of view these pretty young things might as well be candy bars on a shelf for little boys to buy and eat.
This is the reality we live with today.
And on the other side among liberal men who respect all women there still are mistakes but not the kind of mistakes that could result in permanent psychological damage or death for some women.
So, though what is happening in our culture now that women have more power and more voice is the end result is pulling women and men apart further in many ways.
Let me give you an example of one of the many thousands of types of problems people will encounter more now.
My wife was telling the story of a college party where a young man grabbed a woman he didn't know and started "Dry humping her with his clothes on and her clothes on". at first everyone laughed and thought it was funny until the woman starting crying and asking for help. So, this man who was dry humping her, his two best friends had to pull him off of her and slap him around some. These three men had been good friends before this but they were not friends after this happened. There friendships with the man who had done this ended that night and there were many many repercussions after this too.
So, what I'm telling you here is protecting women in these ways will only result in many violent intercessions for men and many ends of life long friendships too. So, ongoing violence is one of the results of these changes that will end many many friendships.
Then you add to this men apologizing if they are liberal in philosophy or men lying about whatever they are really doing if they are Conservative Christians is something that is going to get much worse now. So, it is much more likely that women who they abuse are going to die or to disappear completely now more than ever. I was raised this way myself where I was supposed to deny all sexual feelings whatsoever as a Christian.
However, this kind of thinking only results in really bad things happening to everyone.
Instead what I found was that sex is actually a lot like food for people so people who deny that they need some sexual release usually eventually either go crazy or go crazy and die eventually from this mistaken view. But then some people are not very sexual genetically but they usually don't have any children either. So, unless you accept and embrace your sexuality often people go crazy or die from doing this.
So, if you want to stay alive and you want the people around you to stay alive you must embrace your sexuality just like you have to eat food and drink water to keep your body alive.
To keep a person's mind sane people need to figure out what to do with their sexuality or they and the people around them start to die in various ways. So, being honest with yourselves about your sexuality is one of the ways you keep yourselves and others alive and happy ongoing.
People who are in denial of their sexuality in public and then devious in private are the most dangerous people of all. This is something for everyone to consider.
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