Getting married too young worldwide often leads to spousal abuse and child abuse

Why?

Because when you are young you might be into dating or finishing high school or college but getting married and raising a family puts incredible stresses upon people they might not be expecting. If people think they are just going to be able to stay boyfriend and girlfriend this is completely unrealistic as many of you know.

So, when they get married or have to get married because the girlfriend is pregnant then if they are too young this can be a problem.

This was my experience starting at age 26. (luckily I was old enough to see the problem and to deal with it without abusing my wife.).

Here's the problem that younger people often cannot successfully deal with.

You are married. You have to support your family. Often if your wife is at home she is unhappy to be either home alone or with a baby. Then you come home and are tired and sometimes physically hurting from working hard all day and your wife lays into you screaming because she is upset because she was too young to deal with all this. You are upset because you needed time to regroup to have your going back to work the next day successful but now your wife is screaming at you because she is unhappy.

What are you going to do if she keeps screaming at you and driving you crazy?

You are thinking: "My God! if she doesn't stop this I'm not sure I'm going to be able to control myself because I'm fried from work.

If you prioritize your job over your wife and child often you will abuse your wife and child.

WRONG PRIORITIES!

Unless you prioritize your wife and child OVER your job you are likely to lose all three!

So, prioritizing your wife and child is the right answer!

Otherwise, your job will mean nothing without your wife and child!

This is the problem.

Luckily, I was mature enough to prioritize what was actually important which was the well being of my wife and child over whatever job or business I was involved in.

Unless this is your decision which is to protect your wife and child no matter what even from your job or business  you are going to lose your wife and child! Period.

This is reality. and younger men often cannot get to this point and so they lose everything prioritizing their jobs over their wives and children and then are miserable the rest of their lives as a direct result.