Most men don't degrade women like Trump, Moore and Weinstein do

Charlie Rose, for example, apologized but added, "I always felt that I was pursuing shared feelings, even though I now realize I was mistaken." Sen. Al Franken apologized, too, but Michigan Rep. John Conyers only offered, through a spokesman: "The former staffer voluntarily decided to drop the case." Pixar's John Lasseter apologized and said, in part, "No matter how benign my intent, everyone has the right to set their own boundaries and have them respected."

Meanwhile, the Alabama Republican party has reiterated its support of Senate candidate Roy Moore (as has President Trump), who faces allegations of sexual abuse (he denies them), and the number of women accusing former President George H.W. Bush of groping has reached a whopping eight. Responding to four of the allegations last month, Bush's spokesman "explained" that elder Bush "has patted women's rears in what he intended to be a good-natured manner," and apologized. For the more recent allegations, he offered no comment.

 

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Opinion: Are men clueless on harassment?

As you read this you understand how men who are clueless but also have ethics are. They have fantasies and fantasize that women are sharing their fantasies too. All a woman has to do is to give a man attention and to listen to what he says for him to likely feel she is interested in him. So, when women listen to a man remember it means something entirely different to the man than it does to your best friend who might be a girl.

The male psychology is completely different than a woman's. Just a woman looking into a man's eyes while he is talking to her is enough for that man to fantasize that she is returning his gaze in an amorous way. Male psychology and male chemistry combined with the narcissistic way men tend to view reality creates all sorts of problems like this.

Another problem is that if this man is handsome and has had his way with maybe hundreds of women over the years in this manner (who are you to be an exception?) to everything he has experienced up until now?

So, communication with some men on this level might be impossible. So, you really don't want to go anywhere private with them if you don't intend to do anything especially not to a hotel room or apartment or their home. Don't ever do this because if you go to these places almost anything can or will happen even if he says it won't. 

 All actions (both his and yours) speak much louder than words. And once you are in his hotel room, apartment, or home he might not take "NO!" for an answer. 

This is a real problem. So, if you are a woman and don't expect to get laid you should never go into a man's hotel room, apartment or home anywhere. It's just a really bad idea if you don't expect things to happen. 

It really doesn't matter what he says at all. Men often at certain points will say anything to you to get what they want.

So, be careful about this no matter what they say. What they say and what they are going to do are often two different things.

The more powerful economically the man the more often what I'm writing about here is true.