Now is an opportunity to address things that might heal you and your family if you are careful how you go about all this. Trying to find ways to heal and strengthen yourselves and your families during times like these is often helpful. There is only so much one can stuff to survive a crisis and then people have to face some of the problems that they have been hiding from in order to keep moving forward.
For example, writing about things that have bothered you often gets them off your chest even if you aren't sharing what you are writing with others at all or ever. But, it does help because when you write what you write you are one person but then when you read what you wrote at another time you are another person so it is like two people talking and like it is said, "Two heads are better than one". This is often the way I have found to face things I could not fully face alone in my life. Another thing that happens is this can be a way to self parent too. The person writing is often the child and then you become the parent when you read what you have written and then you can self parent the child in you. This often brings healing of a very deep and personal nature too.
Life isn't perfect and so trying to find a useful and healing way forward is often the best way to make the best of our lives.
By God's Grace
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