Friday, March 5, 2021

Nothing ventured nothing gained

Life is basically about risk taking.

You take too many of the wrong kind of risks and wind up with serious PTSD and paranoid a lot of the time.

You don't take any risks at all and you wind up with nothing in life at all.

Somewhere in the middle is where people often find happiness of one sort or another.

There are physical risks and then there are emotional risks.

And there is an art and a science to all of this in there somewhere too.

For example, after 15 I wasn't afraid of girls like most boys were simply because I had already almost died so many times from age 2 to 15 from whooping cough and blunt trauma caused seizures that they call "Childhood Epilepsy" because it's the only kind you can grow out of where your cranium grows and the pressure on your brain from a concussion goes away by 15 or 16 years of age.

Anyway, by 15 I wasn't scared of girls like most boys are at that age and so I was much more successful with girls than most boys were. Was this a good thing?

Looking back I'm not sure whether it was good or bad it just was what was happening in my life then. I had nothing to compare it with as I had been a child before. All I knew was what I was experiencing then.

I just was trying to survive my life just like everyone else as a teenager and tried to take everything in stride. At that time I didn't see myself has having had PTSD from childhood illnesses. However, by the time I was 25 or 30 I realized that I had been pretty traumatized by childhood illnesses and things that happened to me in the 1950s when fighting was more normal where there was blood and people often went to the hospital with broken arms or heads and things like this.

(I never had to go to the hospital from a fight) but I saw many people who did in the 1950s and early 1960s. I mostly never went to the hospital from a fight because I was always tall for my age and if it was someone my age who hit me then they had to expect to be hit back by me about 5 times as hard as they hit me and when that happened they stopped hitting me. So, I stopped fights before they started in this way. I never started fights but I stopped fights in their tracks one way or another.

My father took me aside and told me: "You are so big and strong for your age that if you get really angry you are going to kill someone because no one will be able to stop you. So, you need to realize this and stay cool headed all the time so you don't kill anyone by accident."

I took this very seriously and refused to let anyone get my goat where I went crazy with rage at them so I didn't every seriously injure or kill anyone who attacked me because of this. Thinking about keeping everyone alive helped me a lot in this always.

However, some risks often don't pay off like Joining the Army or military and fighting in a foreign war or police action. This has a 50-50 chance of you getting serious PTSD for the rest of your life or if you are a woman joining the military maybe a 50-50 chance of getting raped by someone with PTSD who isn't fully in control of their faculties from PTSD.

So, realizing the risks you are creating for yourselves will create a life you can stand to live long term.

However, many people aren't thinking this way and pay the consequences the rest of their natural lives.

However, for me, my risk taking didn't involve the military simply because that isn't the direction the men in my family tended to take (I mean volunteering for military duty). First of all, no one in my family would trust the government enough to put themselves into the hands of the military to begin with because we might consider doing this mentally, physically and emotionally suicidal. But, every family has it's own tradition regarding all this.

However, my father wanted to fly in airplanes and so joined the Marine Air Core reserves in 1934 when he graduated High school as valedictorian because his father wouldn't let him go to college. So, he and his older brother became tail gunners on Hellcat Biplanes in an open cockpit on weekends until 1937. So, they had already served in the military for 4 years way before World War II. Unfortunately, this also eventually led to their younger brother owning a plane and crashing in 1942 as an Army Test pilot helping to learn how to take off from an aircraft carrier in order to bomb Tokyo with Dolittle in trying to scare Japan which it did by bringing the war to them after Pearl Harbor to their people.

In life it is all about taking the right risks where you can have a reasonable chance of surviving the risks you take. But, in these situations it is usually "winner take all" because the rest aren't alive anymore to do anything. Or they have serious PTSD from the risks they have taken already and their lives might be permanently destroyed by those risks.

So, choose carefully the risks you take in life because even though it is "Nothing ventured nothing gained" if you make the wrong choices you are either dead or so seriously maimed in your mind and/or body that your life is basically over.

By God's Grace

However, one of my 5 year older than me male cousins did join the Navy because his father had been in the Navy in World War II so he was near Cuba on a destroyer when the Cuban Missile Crisis happened where the whole world almost nuked out of existence then when President Kennedy was still president and hadn't been assassinated yet. He was I think 17 when he joined up likely right out of high school.

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The Cuban Missile Crisis, also known as the October Crisis of 1962, the Caribbean Crisis, or the Missile Scare, was a 1 month, 4 days confrontation between the United States and the Soviet Union which ... Wikipedia
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