Showing posts with label Culture Shock. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Culture Shock. Show all posts

Saturday, August 1, 2026

Culture Shock

 IF you are an American and have only traveled in the U.S. you might not have experienced Culture shock. However, the most recent thing that gave me sort of culture shock was visiting my Daughter in Texas. However, the most extreme forms of Culture shock would be likely visiting many Asian Countries or Africa or South America. It isn't usually as bad when you go to Europe because most of our ancestors came from there so we still share many of the same ideas and habits as Europe here in the U.S.

However, I suppose if you never left your home town for 25 years and then went somewhere else you might feel lost. Sort of like Going to New York City or Los Angeles from a really small town in the U.S. anywhere because you don't really understand fully what is going on because you didn't grow up there.

Let me give you an example of the most recent form of Culture Shock I experienced a few years ago in Texas. First I was having to take Furosemide then which didn't work for me in the heat so I was close to having to go to the hospital there my first time in Austin Texas with my wife visiting our youngest daughter.

So, then we rented a car and found we could basically stay for free because of points we had built up through Best Western I think it was hotels nationwide. So, not knowing the area we stayed at this place that looked okay from the outside but then since it was hot we opened our windows on the 8th or 10th floor at night only to hear people being raped and mugged below. This didn't make us feel very good. So, when we went back the next year to visit our daughter we found a much nicer hotel at a much nicer location.

So, often when you go somewhere for the first time you might not be safe because you don't know what exactly is going on 24 hours a day at that location which is what we had trouble with the first time there too.

Also, our first visit was scary for my wife driving our rental car because of the style of driving there where drivers often use their cars like weapons to threaten other drivers by just barely missing them to threaten them so they can take over the road more.

However, it didn't bother me much because I learned to drive in Los Angeles in the 1960s where drivers have always been sort of obnoxious because of all the traffic jams and stuff and so they will drive at 70 miles per hour 1 foot off your rear bumper which isn't safe. So, I was less bothered by Austin Texas Drivers than my wife. However, whether it is Austin Texas or other parts of Texas or Los Angeles driving can be pretty scary if you are not used to how people drive there. (Even though the scariest driving was for me in India and Nepal when I drove there where trucks regularly would drive you off the road into the bushes or dirt.

However, they do this strategically because then in the 1980s most paved roads were only one lane so it was a constant game of chicken to see who would run who off the road coming at each other and buses and Trucks always won but sometimes trucks or buses would collide because someone would miscalculate head on. Also, Motorcycles (mostly Yesdi motorcycles made in India would be driven off the road into trees and bushes often too. So, riding a motorcycle in places like India or Bangkok was more a good way to die or be maimed than anything else then in the 1980s.

So, there are many kinds of culture shock that people experience all over the world now and it has always been this way. So, if you are not prepared for what you will face in another city or county or state or Country it is pretty easy for bad things to happen to you.

So, you usually have to be prepared for almost anything if you are a world traveler.

So, it is always an adventure being a world traveler but can be very interesting and stimulating too.

So, from my point of view Travel is usually worth it.

But everyone has their own point of view about all of this too. 

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Culture Shock

 I thought it would be useful for people around the world to better understand what Culture Shock  really is. I have experienced it myself when I went to Nepal and India. I experienced a little of it in Japan because of different body language and the way people tend to think. But, it is much less noticeable because everything looks similar to the U.S. and Europe there. So, unless you are really communicating with locals and they are being honest with you you likely aren't going to experience much difference. But, the difference (at least in 1985 and 1986) when I went to Nepal and India were extreme, especially when I first entered Bihar State and got on a bus there at Raxaul heading towards Bodhgaya. I was pretty scared at first under I began to understand what was going on which was so completely different than the U.S. I sort of felt like I was in the Wild West of the U.S. in the 1800s right along with steam trains and macho, anti-feminist attitudes of men and women at that time in the country only willing to travel in groups of ten women or more to protect themselves if they were single from rape. One place I needed to slap my wife in the face as an act just to get a room because she was talking back to me. She completely understood and wasn't angry because it was the only way to get a hotel room one place we traveled through. We were traveling with our 3 kids at the time. But remember this was 1985 not today which is very different than then. At that time out in the country most women were not allowed to be educated and acted sort of like they were 10 or 12 years old giggling all the time. But, women in places like New Delhi acted more like people from the U.S. and Europe generally at that time. But, the absolute worst experience I had was coming back to the U.S. after being there. This is called Reverse Culture shock because I found I loved the intimacy of the Indian Culture and was horrified at how cold as a culture we actually were when I returned to the U.S. We were treated like Gold Plated E.T. 's  (my step son who was 14 at the time coined the (Gold plated E.T. phrase) which was abslutely how we were treated. At that time only about 40 percent of the people were educated. So, as a middle class person from the U.S. we literally seemed to be people from another planet to most people out in the country and sometimes 100s of people would gather to stare at us. (This really took some getting used to. One time the police came and told us to get back on the bus in 100 plus degrees with no airconditioning because they couldn't guarantee our safety as westerners. Because people had never seen people with blue or green eyes or white skin in that town before I guess then in 1985 and 1986. OH. By the way you might still have to get used to being stared at in places where people might not be educated about western (avert your eyes) ways. It takes some getting used to when 1000 people gather in a circle around you while talking about you to each other.

 

Culture shock

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Culture shock is the personal disorientation a person may feel when experiencing an unfamiliar way of life due to immigration or a visit to a new country, or to a move between social environments, also a simple travel to another type of life.[1]
Enthusiastic welcome offered to the first Indian student to arrive in Dresden, East Germany (1951)
One of the most common causes of culture shock involves individuals in a foreign environment. Culture shock can be described as consisting of at least one of four distinct phases: Honeymoon, Negotiation, Adjustment, and Mastery, are the most common attributes that pertain to existing problems, further hindrances include: information overload, language barrier, generation gap, technology gap, skill interdependence, formulation dependency, homesickness (cultural), infinite regress (homesickness), boredom (job dependency), response ability (cultural skill set). [2] There is no true way to entirely prevent culture shock, as individuals in any society are personally affected by cultural contrasts differently.[3]

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The four phases

Honeymoon phase

During this period, the differences between the old and new culture are seen in a romantic light. For example, in moving to a new country, an individual might love the new food, the pace of life, and the locals' habits. During the first few weeks, most people are fascinated by the new culture. They associate with nationals who speak their language, and who are polite to the foreigners. This period is full of observations and new discoveries. Like most honeymoon periods, this stage eventually ends.[4]

Negotiation phase

After some time (usually around three months, depending on the individual), differences between the old and new culture become apparent and may create anxiety. Excitement may eventually give way to unpleasant feelings of frustration and anger as one continues to experience unfavorable events that may be perceived as strange and offensive to one's cultural attitude. Language barriers, stark differences in public hygiene, traffic safety, food accessibility and quality may heighten the sense of disconnection from the surroundings.[5]
While being transferred into a different environment puts special pressure on communication skills, there are practical difficulties to overcome, such as circadian rhythm disruption that often leads to insomnia and daylight drowsiness; adaptation of gut flora to different bacteria levels and concentrations in food and water; difficulty in seeking treatment for illness, as medicines may have different names from the native country's and the same active ingredients might be hard to recognize.
Still, the most important change in the period is communication: People adjusting to a new culture often feel lonely and homesick because they are not yet used to the new environment and meet people with whom they are not familiar every day. The language barrier may become a major obstacle in creating new relationships: special attention must be paid to one's and others' culture-specific body language signs, linguistic faux pas, conversation tone, linguistic nuances and customs, and false friends.
In the case of students studying abroad, some develop additional symptoms of loneliness that ultimately affect their lifestyles as a whole. Due to the strain of living in a different country without parental support, international students often feel anxious and feel more pressure while adjusting to new cultures—even more so when the cultural distances are wide, as patterns of logic and speech are different and a special emphasis is put on rhetoric.

Adjustment phase

Again, after some time (usually 6 to 12 months), one grows accustomed to the new culture and develops routines. One knows what to expect in most situations and the host country no longer feels all that new. One becomes concerned with basic living again, and things become more "normal". One starts to develop problem-solving skills for dealing with the culture and begins to accept the culture's ways with a positive attitude. The culture begins to make sense, and negative reactions and responses to the culture are reduced.[citation needed]

Mastery phase

In the mastery stage assignees are able to participate fully and comfortably in the host culture. Mastery does not mean total conversion; people often keep many traits from their earlier culture, such as accents and languages. It is often referred to as the biculturalism stage

Reverse culture shock

Reverse Culture Shock (a.k.a. "Re-entry Shock", or "own culture shock"[6]) may take place — returning to one's home culture after growing accustomed to a new one can produce the same effects as described above. This results from the psychosomatic and psychological consequences of the readjustment process to the primary culture.[7] The affected person often finds this more surprising and difficult to deal with than the original culture shock. This phenomenon, the reactions that members of the re-entered culture exhibit toward the re-entrant, and the inevitability of the two are encapsulated in the saying "you can't go home again," first coined by Thomas Wolfe in his book of that title.

Outcomes

There are three basic outcomes of the Adjustment Phase:
  • Some people find it impossible to accept the foreign culture and integrate. They isolate themselves from the host country's environment, which they come to perceive as hostile, withdraw into a "ghetto" and see return to their own culture as the only way out. These "Rejectors" also have the greatest problems re-integrating back home after return.[citation needed]
  • Some people integrate fully and take on all parts of the host culture while losing their original identity. They normally remain in the host country forever. This group is sometimes known as "Adopters".
  • Some people manage to adapt to the aspects of the host culture they see as positive, while keeping some of their own and creating their unique blend. They have no major problems returning home or relocating elsewhere. This group can be thought to be somewhat cosmopolitan.
Culture shock has many different effects, time spans, and degrees of severity.[8] Many people are handicapped by its presence and do not recognize what is bothering them.

Transition shock

Culture shock is a subcategory of a more universal construct called transition shock. Transition shock is a state of loss and disorientation predicated by a change in one's familiar environment which requires adjustment. There are many symptoms of transition shock, some which include:
  • Excessive concern over cleanliness and health
  • Feelings of helplessness and withdrawal
  • Irritability
  • Anger
  • Glazed stare
  • Desire for home and old friends
  • Physiological stress reactions
  • Homesickness
  • Boredom
  • Withdrawal
  • Getting "stuck" on one thing
  • Suicidal or fatalistic thoughts
  • Excessive sleep
  • Compulsive eating/drinking/weight gain
  • Stereotyping host nationals
  • Hostility towards host nationals[9]

See also

References

  1. ^ Macionis, John, and Linda Gerber. "Chapter 3 - Culture." Sociology. 7th edition ed. Toronto, ON: Pearson Canada Inc., 2010. 54. Print.
  2. ^ Pedersen, Paul. The Five Stages of Culture Shock: Critical Incidents Around the Worldd. Contributions in psychology, no. 25. Westport, Conn: Greenwood Press, 1995.
  3. ^ Barna, LaRay M. "HOW CULTURE SHOCK AFFECTS COMMUNICATION." Communication 5.1 (n.d.): 1-18. SocINDEX with Full Text. EBSCO.29 Sept.2009.web.
  4. ^ Oberg, Dr. Lalervo. "Culture Shock and the problem of Adjustment to the new cultural environments". World Wide Classroom Consortium for International Education & Multicultural studies. 29 Sept 2009.
  5. ^ Mavrides, Gregory PhD “Culture Shock and Clinical Depression.” Foreign Teachers Guide to Living and Working in China. Middle Kingdom Life, 2009. Web. 29 Sept. 2009.
  6. ^ Martin Woesler, A new model of intercultural communication – critically reviewing, combining and further developing the basic models of Permutter, Yoshikawa, Hall, Hofstede, Thomas, Hallpike, and the social-constructivism, Bochum/Berlin 2009, book series Comparative Cultural Sciences vol. 1
  7. ^ Huff, Jennifer L. "Parental attachment, reverse culture shock, perceived social support, and college adjustment of missionary children." Journal of Psychology & Theology 29.3 (2001): 246-264.29 Sept 2009.Web
  8. ^ Christofi, Victoria, and Charles L. Thompson "You Cannot Go Home Again: A Phenomenological Investigation of Returning to the Sojourn Country After Studying Abroad." Journal of Counselling & Development 85.1 (2007): 53-63. SocINDEX with Full Text. EBSCO. Web. 15 Oct. 2009.
  9. ^ CESA. “dealing with culture shock.” Management Entity: Office of International Research, Education, and Development. Web. 29 Sept. 2009. <http://www.oired.vt.edu/cesa/currentstudents/cs_culturalshock.htm>

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Culture Shock

Culture Shock. Note:The following took place in 1985 and 1986 while I was in Japan, Thailand, Nepal and India. All these countries have changed a lot since this happened in many many ways. So don't expect any of what I'm saying here to be true at all anymore.

In December 1985 I had only been to the lower 48 states of the U.S. and Hawaii, Canada and Mexico. Only Mexico and to a lesser degree Hawaii prepared me for what I was to experience in Asia. At the time I remember saying to my wife and kids before we left for Asia, "This experience will probably be the most like going to another planet that we could experience on earth." The real experience proved this statement correct and more so.

Out in the country in India away from the tourist traps people in the hundreds gathered around us to see people with green eyes and light colored skin. They wanted to touch our hair and even feel the hair on our arms. None of us were prepared for this. None of us ever got used to hundreds or thousands of people gathering in a circle staring at us. In their culture it would be impolite not to stare. In their culture it would be impolite not to try and touch.

My then 14 year old stepson said, "These people think we are gold plated E.T.'s" He was right.
Even though at the time we were just average middle class Americans from Coastal California we could not have been more different to these people than if we came from the moon. Thousands of People begged us to take them with us to the United States. Hundreds of people begged us to take their 15 to 17 year old daughters with us as au pairs for our children aged then 10 to 14. Since most of these kinds of people had no formal education or documentation of their births there was no legal way to help them even if we had wanted to. Some people we came very close to bringing to the United States with us. For example, Deshek, a 22 year old Tibetan man living in Dharmsala, India. He was an educated Buddhist scholar but we realized his vision of what the United States was really like was too much of a dream and nothing we could share could dissuade his ideas of what America really was. We sensed that he would be broken by the truth of America if he came here to live. There is this dream throughout the world of an America whose streets are paved with gold and that everything is easy. You and I who live in America know that though there is opportunity here in America but that the truth can be very difficult to deal with on other levels. In America you can get a lot but what you get can cost ones soul in some ways. People in other countries often just can't relate to the truth of what it is really like to be here and live here for real. And people who can't get to the truth of America likely would be talking to themselves on some street corner once they got here.

One of the hardest experiences was of a beautiful tribal girl that her parents wanted to give to us while we were in Helambu, Nepal trekking. We had to pretend that we didn't understand what they wanted. After that, about 1000 people from her tribe cussed us out as they passed us. We could never understand them nor they us. After the 50th set of people stopped to swear in their language at us and we politely said, "hello. How are you?" we finally got disgusted with this and started to act polite as we swore back at them. This gave us great satisfaction and we didn't get murdered. And as far as I know they didn't understand a word because they were all uneducated.

At times I wonder why it was so important for them to give us their daughter. Maybe she was being forced to marry someone she didn't want. Maybe she wanted to go to America. Maybe she was pregnant and if she wasn't married she would be killed. We never knew. These are the kinds of strange experiences one could have in the Himalayas in the 1980's. Even when I started to seriously consider trying to take her with us I realized she wouldn't have a birth certificate because of being rural and tribal. That was the end of it right there.

Then there was the beautiful 16 year old girl dressed all in white that got on the bus in Pathankot on our way to Dharmsala. I was sitting next to my wife on the bus on the aisle so she walked up to me and locked her knees on my thigh. I looked over at my wife and she sort of shrugged like, I don't know why she's doing this either. No one on the bus seemed to think anything of it. I later believed she was just bracing herself for all the bumbs and chuckholes as the bus bounced along. Later at her stop she simply got off without looking back.

Another time in New Delhi an older lady who once had been beautiful begged me for money while in some sort of gypsy costume. When I ignored her she got down on her knees and grabbed my thigh. As a westerner in this kind of compromising position I didn't see any recourse to giving her a few coins. When I gave her the coins she released my thigh and thanked me. I was very relieved because one never knows what the local customs are throughout India since there are about 300 languages spoken there and with English being the least universally offensive to all the locals.

It was a once in a lifetime experience for 4 months for the 5 of us. We spent 2 weeks in Thailand coming and another week or so returning to the U.S. We spent a couple of Days in Kathmandu, Nepal and then went to Bodhgaya, India to meet our friend. What was nice was that we met two old friends there. One of them was there that we hadn't expected from Alaska.
All five of us in my family's lives were permanently enriched and changed by this experience. Though we had to deal with dead bodies that didn't get picked up in the streets on multiple occasions, in general we were more amazed by our experiences than dismayed. I talked to an American who said, "I have a love hate relationship with India. Some of the worst things I've ever seen have been here but also some of the most wonderful and amazing things have also happened while I have been visiting here." This sort of summed up my experiences too.

The absolute worst culture shock was coming home to America. Everyone was hiding in their cars, and apartments and homes and not walking or talking or even arguing over prices on the street markets together. I found the real reality though harsh was in India and Nepal. The fake reality was here in America. Though it is much safer to live here in America it is also a lot more fake like living in Disneyland. However, would you rather see dead bodies on the streets that no one ever comes for to take them away or live in Disneyland? Most people on earth would make the same decision that you and I have and live in America.