Most men cry in private not in public

Crying can help you prevent cancer or death from heart attack or stroke. But, most men prefer to do this in private or among only their closest friends. To bottle up your emotions like some people do is often fatal at one point or another or maiming.

You cannot just stay angry forever beyond a certain level and stay alive. Tears have to come out some place or often you are just going to die young when something real and serious happens in your lives.

So, crying for a man is often strategic. They try to control when it comes out if they can but sometimes it just isn't possible.

Kavanaugh's reputation is ruined for life no matter whether he is voted in as Supreme Court Justice or not in the same way that O J Simson's reputation was ruined when he was acquitted of murdering his wife and her lover.

The reason Kavanaugh cannot regain his actual reputation ever now is that there will likely be no investigation by the FBI. Without it he is ruined for life like Clarence Thomas because of the Anita Hill Controversy. So, in some ways becoming a Supreme Court Justice can only be very very hollow for Kavanaugh and his wife and children might leave him over this anyway.