Monday, November 13, 2017

For men: where is the line?

There truth is there is no longer any one line.

There are now millions of them because each woman is going to draw her line different from all the rest.

So, what does this do to men?

They cannot trust women to have any line whatsoever.

So, what does this do?

Men won't ask women to do anything in business or in pleasure unless they are completely sure of an outcome ahead of time.

For example, it will make men more likely to hire prostitutes or use Tinder rather than try to have an actual relationship with a woman because at least in these two situations it is understood what everyone wants. Sort of.

So, the problem with all this that is happening now is that it will tend to reduce business opportunities for women because most men are not like "Trump and Weinstein" who are serial rapists and abusers of women.

Most men tend to be just like average men everywhere wondering "What the Hell is going on?"

So, most men are just going to say to themselves, "I really don't trust any woman right now so I'm completely stepping back from any overtures at all. Because this is really really crazy what is happening right now."

So, if there is to be a business meeting, "I won't invite those women because I don't want to have to deal with any potential fall outs." or "I won't ask that girl out to dinner because I don't know what she expects or doesn't expect.

So, the outcome is not at all what women expect it to be.

The walls between men and women are likely to get 100s of feet higher because no one now understands what is supposed to happen or not happen.

So, men are forced to stand back from women because they really don't know how to behave now or what to expect AT ALL.

Because what ALL women want or don't want now is now suspect to ALL MEN.

In this sort of situation you step back from all women until some new norm is figured out.

It is not worth the risk anymore of saying anything to any woman at all about anything.

I tend to understand women better than most men who grew up in the 1950s and 1960s.

However, everyone must understand that the actual walls between all men and women went up about 100 feet higher than they ever were before because of everything going on now.

Why?

Because men now have no idea what is expected of them in any situation simply because all the rules have changed but no man at least has any idea what they are now changing too. So, as a result most men will just tend to shut out women more from all their activities (unless it is for cash or money). Or maybe Tinder and that's all.

This is the unfortunate bi-product for everyone on earth in the western world now.

It should be a good thing that is happening and maybe one day it actually will be.

But, for now it just screwed up everything for everyone until new norms are established.

So, maybe 50 to 100 years from now what is going on might be a good thing but right now it is totally harming all male and female relationships in the western world.


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