Outside of standing by all my children moving onto a path of compassion likely was the single most important thing I did in my life

 Why?

Because unless you have compassion for yourself and all others and have integrity for yourself and all others lives generally tend to be short. Often people are either dead or crazy by age 30 years of age.

To live a long life one needs integrity of oneself and one's actions toward others, otherwise bad things tend to happen to that person and his or her family along the way.

Compassion towards oneself and all others is being a good citizen of Earth and a good citizen of the Galaxy and Universe too.

If you don't like yourself have compassion for others and then finally by treating others well you will start to have compassion for yourself over time. It doesn't really matter if you start by having compassion for yourself or others, you just need to start somewhere to become a completely whole person who can live with themselves and be able to look themselves in the mirror without wanting to kill themselves or to self destruct in some way.

Have kindness for yourself. You deserve it no matter what anyone tells you. Usually those are all lies anyway that you know are lies. People put you down as a way to control your thoughts and actions. This is the reality we all face.

People use lies to try to control your behaviors whether they are relatives or (Friends?) or acquaintances. This is just what people do when they feel bad about themselves and have to put you down so they feel better about themselves. This is just another symptom of their PTSD from their own traumas. It really has nothing at all to do with you in reality.

What you believe is all that's really important. You need to reparent yourself so you can have a good life like I have had.

I had to completely reparent myself and reject all the lies people made up about me because they weren't there in my early 20s.

I had to go on alone pretty much with only my parents and I knowing the truth about who I was.

But, in the end I was more healthy than all the friends I grew up with in my church because they were still trapped in rumors and lies about me and about them.

You have to free yourselves from lies or unfounded rumors because they mean less than nothing about you if they aren't true to begin with.

So, like I said I'm most proud about standing by my children through anything that has come and for being wise enough to move onto a path of compassion towards all beings in the past, present and future of the entire universe.

By God's Grace