Are you Decisive or Non-Decisive?

Being non-decisive people will tend to love you more because you won't come into any kind of conflict with them if you are a normal person.

Being Decisive you are more likely to become wealthy and successful but this doesn't mean people are going to like you for being decisive.

Most people fall somewhere in the middle of this equation where they want to be loved but make enough decisions so their lives actually work and don't completely fall apart at one point or another.

I would say I'm on the decisive end of all of this.

My housekeeper realizes she is non-decisive so everyone loves her and she has no enemies.

I told her that people might resent her because everyone loves her because she doesn't come into conflict with others. This was news to her.

I told her that being really decisive like I am or really non-decisive causes people to suffer a lot.

I told her how I'm very very good at making good decisions but then I have to live with the consequences of my decisions in life and this has caused me a lot of suffering even though I always in the end make the right decisions and part of this is why I'm financially covered, have a good family and I'm able to travel the world.

My housekeeper has 3 children ages 10 to 20 years of age and is not presently married but is a very lovely person and reminds me a lot of my mother and is about 40 years of age.

So, if you are thinking about whether you want to be a decisive person or not, do you want to have enough money and a life or do you want to be loved?

However, it is also true that you can be both loved and decisive at the same time. This has been true in a lot of my life too.

So, each of us has to find our own ways in life and it only takes a few good decisions in your life to be well cared for, loved and financially okay.

By God's Grace

(But that doesn't mean we mostly weren't sort of poor going through college and had to be very resourceful to get to where we all are now).