If a man lives 20 miles away from the nearest person is he still wrong?

If you are laughing right now you know the joke. The joke is actually how women feel about men.

If you are a woman the answer to this question is "The man is wrong!"

If you are a man and aren't laughing yet don't expect to ever live with a woman and be happy. This is a given.

Because to a woman if you are a man you are automatically wrong just being a man in your normal existence. This is how ALL women actually think. (Even though they might hide this from you while you are dating before you are married). However, after you are married just expect to be wrong all the time because this is how all women actually are. I think it's funny and can laugh about it but if you cannot laugh about it you likely cannot live with a women more than a weekend or so at a time. Because living full time with a woman REQUIRES buying into this way of thinking.

If you are a man by the way the answer to the title question is: "The man is just fine doing whatever he is doing as long as he isn't hurting anyone."

But, the woman's answer is ALWAYS going to be (if she is honest with you) "He's wrong like all men all the time!"

IF you can laugh about it you just might be able to live with a woman long term. If you can't maybe you shouldn't be thinking about this much.

For me, This is how I think about it:

Viva la difference!

Hooray for the difference!

Life would be pretty dull if all there were were men in the world.

Women and children make the world interesting enough for me to continue to stay alive for. Otherwise I would soon choose to be gone.

Why?

Because all men are assholes and God help me I am one of them.

Because men are basically survivors and women are nurturers (at least traditionally for thousands and thousands of years).

Just being a man is interesting while climbing mountains, riding motorcycles, snorkeling, sailing, boating, hiking or any other outdoor pursuit you might be interested in. But, after you are done with all that a woman is always nice to come home to to bind your wounds, take care of you, and so you can take care of each other and extend each others lives, traveling and laughing all the way.

Because:

IF you woman isn't happy neither are you!

And if your woman isn't happy and you are raising kids "God Help You!"

Because then almost anything can and will happen. I've been there 25 years ago. I know. It was the single loneliest time in my life and there were 6 of us then.

So, try to find a way to keep your woman happy but I know it isn't always possible.

"If a man lives 20 miles form the nearest woman is he still wrong?

Woman: YES!

A man: He's just fine.


Is my present wife happy?

Yes. Very happy.

am I still wrong?

to her, Yes.

But, here's the thing guys. If your wife is happy you are happy. Otherwise, forget it!