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Nurse in iconic Times Square sailor-kiss photo dead at 92
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autographed copy of the now-iconic photo in which Greta Zimmer
Friedman's smooch was immortalized. (Courtesy Joshua Friedman).
Greta Zimmer Friedman, nurse in iconic Times Square sailor-kiss photo, dead at 92
Friedman had been ill for some time, but recently contracted pneumonia. Her role in history was quite accidental: On the morning of Aug. 14, 1945, 21-year-old Greta Zimmer reported to work as a dental assistant on Lexington Ave. All morning, she heard rumors that the Japanese had surrendered, ending World War II, shortly after the United States had dropped atomic bombs on the cities of Hiroshima and Nagasaki. In the afternoon, Friedman wandered west to investigate.
As she entered Times Square, Friedman found herself grabbed and kissed by George Mendonsa, a sailor on leave who was overjoyed by the war's end. Unbeknownst to either, noted Life magazine photographer Alfred Eisenstaedt captured the moment, and published it a few weeks later. Both Friedman and Mendonsa would go decades without knowing about the image, "V-J Day in Times Square."
Before and after the photograph, Zimmer Friedman lived a full and interesting life. Born in Austria in 1924, she traveled to America in 1938 with two younger sisters, fleeing Hitler and the Nazis. Her parents intended to follow, but never made it. Details of their deaths remain unclear to the family — and on the day that young Greta was photographed being kissed by Mendonsa, she did not know if her parents were still alive.
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In 1956, she married a doctor, Mischa (Mitty) Friedman, and moved to Maryland, where she raised a son, Joshua Friedman, now of Glen Allen, Va., and a daughter, Mara Friedman, of Studio City, Calif.
Friedman first saw Eisenstaedt's photograph in a book in the 1960s. She contacted Life, but the magazine was not interested in determining the subject. In 1980, Life put out an issue asking for the sailor and nurse to come forward, and was flooded with dozens of claims, and declined to name one as definitive.
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Also that year, controversy erupted when a London-based blogger who uses the pseudonym Leopard wrote a provocative post on Crates and Ribbons titled "The Kissing Sailor, or 'The Selective Blindness of Rape Culture,'" arguing the kiss represented nothing short of a sexual assault.
The blogger noted comments from Greta Friedman's 2005 Veterans History Project interview. "It wasn't my choice to be kissed," Friedman said. "The guy just came over and grabbed!"
"My mom always had an appreciation for a feminist viewpoint, and understood the premise that you don't have a right to be intimate with a stranger on the street," Josh Friedman said. "(But) she didn't assign any bad motives to George in that circumstance, that situation, that time."
Mischa Friedman died in 1998. Greta Zimmer Friedman is survived by her two children; grandchildren Caroline Friedman of Glen Allen, Va., and Michael Friedman of San Francisco, Calif., plus numerous nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews.
Mendonsa, 93, is a retired fisherman living in Rhode Island.
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