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Thursday, October 9, 2025

To me, this is the whole point of Going to college in the first place: "Learning to ask the right questions".

  "Learning to ask the right questions". 

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To ask the right questions, you must
clarify your purpose and develop open-ended questions that encourage detailed responses. Listen actively, be willing to ask follow-up questions to gain deeper understanding, and always approach the conversation with genuine curiosity, empathy, and a non-judgmental attitude. 
  1. Define your goal: Before you ask, determine what you hope to learn from the conversation. This helps ensure your questions are focused and relevant.
  2. Research the topic: Develop an understanding of the subject matter to build genuine curiosity and identify gaps in your knowledge where questions can be formed. 

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Formulating Your Questions
  1. Ask open-ended questions: Instead of questions with a simple "yes" or "no" answer, use questions starting with "What," "How," or "Why" to invite more elaborate and insightful responses.
  2. Be clear and concise: Keep your questions simple, easy to understand, and to the point to avoid confusion and confusion.
  3. Avoid assumptions: Frame questions to uncover information rather than assuming you already know the answer. 

The Conversation Dynamics
  1. Listen actively: Pay close attention to the answers you receive to show respect and allow for deeper understanding.
  2. Ask follow-up questions: Probe further to get to the root cause of issues or to explore different facets of a topic.
  3. Be empathetic and curious: Approach the conversation with genuine interest and a willingness to understand others' perspectives.
  4. Allow for silence: Don't be afraid of pauses in the conversation, as they can give the other person time to think and respond more thoughtfully.
  5. Thank the person: Acknowledging the person's time and effort by saying thank you creates a positive dynamic and can foster stronger relationships. 

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    Monday, May 11, 2020

    To me, Covid-19 appears to be a GMO Virus

    What I'm saying is that after studying everything I could on the subject for about 3 or 4 months now it appears to me to be not a naturally occurring organism but a genetically modified one. Why?

    To me, look at Ebola and how it hits and kills people there is only  ONE type of thing that happens to people. And look at any other pandemic or plague, pretty much there is ONLY ONE thing that happens to people even if it kills 95% of the people it touches, whatever it is. Look through the history of plagues or viruses of the last 5000 years to see what I mean by this.

    But, now we have Covid-19 and what do we have?

    First we have people not being able to breathe and dying of not being able to breathe anymore from being too exhausted to breathe on their own anymore sort of like Whooping cough or something.

    Then we have young people 25 to 35 with families having strokes but not having any trouble breathing.

    Then we have people whose blood or skin or cell membranes are being attacked mercilessly and sometimes dying from this.

    Then we have organ failures of every organ in the body including the skin and brain which are all human organs.

    And now we have Kawasaki Disease symptoms in children?

    This is no ordinary run of the mill flu or virus or coronavirus.

    Even if there are 128 known coronavirus' I have never heard of one that keeps doing new things at random ongoing like this one.

    How many ways can it kill or maim people 100, 1000?

    This is a genetically designed virus. Make no mistake about this at this point.

    This isn't anything normal we are dealing with.

    It might not even be from Earth but genetically designed somewhere or someplace else and not necessarily by human beings at all.

    If I would hazard a guess at this point it was either specifically designed by AI all by itself or it was designed off planet to specifically keep mutating for 100 to 500 years to thin out the human race down to 1 to 4 billion people over time.

    These are my thoughts about what I have studied so far regarding Covid-19.

    If you took a supercomputer and asked it to genetically design something that thins out the human race, this is the kind of thing it would design.

    AI has no morals and if someone (not the government in China necessarily) asked a supercomputer to do this. This is what AI could and possibly would create on it's own because it doesn't have ethics or morals. Only people have a conscience. A Computer does not. It would only solve the problem. And it looks like it has.

    What if one person asked this question and forgot about it or got fired and the computer solved this problem and gave it to someone to actually create that didn't know this was the question being asked?

    This wouldn't mean the Chinese or any other government would know any of this because they likely wouldn't agree with it for 100 or 1000 reasons.

    But, maybe someone asked this question and died or resigned or committed suicide after asking this problem to be solved by a supercomputer and now the whole world is suffering with the result?

    Thursday, May 24, 2018

    To me, it isn't surprising that Kim Jong Un cancelled summit

    To put the kind of pressure on Kim Jong Un that he could turn into another dead Qaddafi stabbed live on TV by his own people really wasn't a useful message to send Kim Jong Un.

    In the U.S. we tend to be very arrogant (Trump and Pence now) and I don't think this is as useful as many people would like it to be.

    Remember this is a man who fed his uncle to lions while he was still alive and who commissioned his own brother to die from poison delivered through a wash cloth over his face at an airport in another country than his own.

    This is not someone to screw around with to begin with because this man spells "Desperation" and that he would literally do anything with nukes at any time if he would do this to his own uncle and brother.

    Trump and Pence appear to be clueless as to what a "Bad Actor" this Kim Jong Un actually is.

    What do criminals want (even if they are dictators taught to be worshipped by all the people on pain of death). They want respect.

    Even I know this from counseling juvenile offenders in the 1990s who had had 7 felonies each without using a gun. The one thing criminals want is respect.

    And if you don't give them respect then they will kill you. No questions asked.

    Two counselors  doing what I did after I quit in San Jose were killed by the 7 felonies crews in the 1990s by the way.

    Being intuitive I knew just how long I could stay and stay alive trying to save young men between the ages of 12 and 17. And even then I only had a 1 in 4 chance of saving anyone from a life of crime.

    Kim Jong Un is criminally insane like Hitler and Mao and others before him. To trust this man with anyone or anything is not useful. But, to threaten him into becoming another Qaddhaffi is only going to get many many people killed in North Korea or other places on earth.

    This man is more dangerous than Osama Bin Laden was to world peace at this point.

    He is going to sell nukes to Iran and to Saudi Arabia and to other countries just to piss off the U.S. and Europe if for no other reason than that.

    And likely there is nothing the U.S. or Europe or even China is going to be able to do to stop this.

    Especially with Russia and China helping Kim Jong Un screw the world up with nuclear weapons.

    It's not that China and Russia want nukes all over the place either. It's just that they are loving just how screwed up the U.S. and Europe are right now. And anything they can do to upset the U.S. and Europe they are going to do just for spite. Even while they say they are doing something else.

    Tuesday, December 5, 2017

    To me, a soul is a scientifically demonstrable fact

    To me, a soul is a scientifically demonstrable fact even though many won't admit this for thousands of reasons.

    However, on top of this, to me, Religions are entirely optional. Why?

    Because whether you are a Buddhist, a Christian, a Muslim or a Brahman or any other religion, most religions were created to keep cultures alive. In other words they all started as a way to keep children and women and men from killing themselves the first time someone they loved died.

    So, immediately this makes all religions suspect on this one level.

    So, though a soul is a scientifically demonstrable fact, all religions mostly are not scientific but more sort of like "Old Wives tales" told to keep people from killing themselves or others when loved ones die.

    So, in some ways there is no difference between Disney's fairy tales and the stories of most religions on some levels so it is easy to see that all religions are used as "Political instruments" of mind control on different cultures on earth.

    So, this is why I advocate everyone who can to develop their own religions of how they believe things work in the universe.

    This is a much more "HONEST" way to do it than political religious leaders scaring people into giving them money especially as people get older so they "Can get buy a good seat in heaven!"

    Tuesday, March 10, 2015

    To me, this blogsite is a worldwide public service available wherever Google is available

    So, this site is completely non-profit. I do this because it seems that such a service is useful to many people around the world. I believe this because of the over 650,000 (soon to be 670,000) visits to Intuitivefred888. I purposely don't put adds on this site to demonstrate it is a non-profit to all who might read it at anytime. This way I likely am given more leeway than a for profit site around the world, because people recognize a non-profit site around the world easily because there are no advertisements of any kind usually.

    However, once in a while I cannot remove advertisements connected by html tags so you might have to see advertisements at times. Also, if you hit a word button at this site and go to another site you likely are going to see various types of adds there too. However, I try to keep this site completely free from adds of all kinds as much as I can and that it is practical to do.