My daughter and her boyfriend from Europe were watching Californication on Netflix and my reaction was that David Duchovny and his wife in the series shouldn't break up but instead go into counseling. Often, what people are dealing with "when they belong together" is their "Adapted Child" which is a psychological term for what happens to us when we become injured psychologically as children (which happens to everyone in some ways by the way). So, what actually needed to happen but didn't was that Duchovny and his wife needed counseling to overcome their difficulties in getting past their adapted children inside of them. As adults an adapted child is about projecting our problems on others rather than taking personal responsibility for our problems. My wife and I went through peer counseling sessions with Breakthrough and Breakfree around 2000. Breakthrough is for men and Breakfree is for women by the way. In this way we have so far stayed together for 25 years through everything life has brought to us by overcoming our "Adapted Children" within us and not projecting our stuff on each other. So, often we will say, "Oh. That's my stuff I shouldn't project it onto you!" This keeps us from projecting our traumas on each other and respecting each others stuff. This way we can love each other without harming each other psychologically. By God's Grace
Californication. 2007TV-MA TV Dramedies. A novelist battles writer's block and a weakness for drugs, booze and sex while struggling to make things work with ...
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Californication. 2007TV-MA Award-winning TV Shows. Un novelista perdió la inspiración y se debate entre las drogas, la bebida y el sexo mientras intenta ...
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