The Problem with Celibacy

Many religions advocate Celibacy. But, if you have passed through puberty or are in puberty now this is very dangerous.

It is sort of like saying, "You must not every think about eating and you must not eat food ever again. And not only that you must not think about urinating or ever defecating or doing that ever again."

I know what I'm saying might sound sort of extreme to you but the effect is much the same in real life.

So, what often is being asked of healthy sexual people is, "You must not think about sex, you must not masturbate, you must not have sex with anyone ever."

The last one is of course optional for everyone. However, not thinking about sex, not masturbating ever is going to make most healthy people in puberty or after: Crazy!

Here is the problem. You are not a robot. You are a human being. And if you are a normal human being you are going to have sexual desires.

Why?

Because this is the way humans are designed to reproduce and have children. And to deny is is only going to cause you and everyone around you problems.

So, the first step to sanity is to accept that you are a normal healthy being. The second step is to realize that you might need to relieve yourself through masturbation so you don't kill anyone and so you are mellow enough to be a gentleman or gentlewoman and a healthy member of society.

Whether or not you ever choose to have sex with another member of society is completely up to you in the end. But, to start off you need to take care of yourself so you are healthy and not making yourself completely crazy in one way or another.

So, here is my statement that I have observed in all sexually healthy people.

Celibacy in Healthy people only leads to mental aberrations and various forms of insanity. Sex is like food especially to men and if men don't release themselves they are prone to violence and murder much more.

So, this is something to think about too.

So, in trying to protect yourself and keeping yourself out of jail being celibate isn't the way to do it.

At the very least you have to release pent up emotions through masturbation periodically so you are not a physical danger to yourself or others.

Whether you have sex with consenting others is your business. But, non-violence is everyone's business.